Prince Harry is reportedly going to miss his son’s godfather’s wedding, where Prince William will be an usher. A royal biographer has revealed the “sad” reason why. Like the biographer, social media users have asserted their own opinions concerning the matter.
Prince Harry at the closing ceremony of the Invictus Games in Düsseldorf, Germany on September 16, 2023 | Source: Getty Images
In heartwarming royal news, the Duke of Westminster, Hugh Grosvenor, is set to tie the knot next month. He will be marrying his beloved partner, Olivia Henson, on June 7. However, this joyous news has been overshadowed by the fact that Prince Harry will not be in attendance at the wedding.
The Duke of Westminster, Hugh Grosvenor, at the wedding of Charlie van Straubenzee and Daisy Jenks in Frensham, England on August 4, 2018 | Source: Getty Images
The Duke of Sussex, who shares a close relationship with Hugh—the godfather to Prince Archie—is reportedly choosing to sit out the event because he doesn’t want any drama. According to royal biographer Angela Levin, “Harry […] says he doesn’t want to make a fuss there and disturb everybody.”
Prince Harry was seen wearing his KCVO Neck Order and Star at the Invictus Games Foundation 10th Anniversary Service at St Paul’s Cathedral in London, England on May 8, 2024 | Source: Getty Images
However, Angela thinks Prince Harry won’t attend for a different reason. “I don’t think he’s had an invitation. They realised it would be very awkward for the royals to have him here, either for their own reasons or Harry said they don’t want to come, but I think it’s the former,” divulged Angela.
Prince Harry spotted out in New York City on May 16, 2023 | Source: Getty Images
On the flip side, Prince Harry’s older brother will be in attendance at the wedding, not only as a guest but as an usher. Additionally, Meghan Markle will not attend and Princess Catherine is also expected not to be there. The public has weighed in on the matter, collectively expressing sorrow.
Princess Catherine, Prince William, Prince Harry and Meghan Markle on their way to view flowers and tributes to the late Queen Elizabeth II in Windsor, England on September 10, 2022 | Source: Getty Images
“That’s sad. He should go anyways,” commented a social media user on X while another expressed the same sentiment and added that the decision is “understandable.” Conversely, others have taken to blaming Prince Harry’s wife as the real reason why he won’t go.
Prince Harry and Meghan Markle on Day 2 of their Nigerian tour in Abuja, Nigeria on May 11, 2024 | Source: Getty Images
“I’m sure this was Meghan’s decision not Harry’s,” claimed another X user. Similarly, someone else exclaimed, “She won’t let him go! He isn’t allowed to have friends!” Referencing Prince Harry, a Facebooker wrote, “Such a shame and spiteful and so childish.”
Meghan Markle and Prince Harry arriving at a charity polo game during their Nigerian tour in Lagos, Nigeria on May 12, 2024 | Source: Getty Images
Observers may blame Meghan for Prince Harry’s decision not to go to Hugh’s wedding, however, some may be quick to forget about another factor.
It’s no secret that the Duke of Sussex’s relationships with his royal family members have been tense, to say the least, especially where his brother, Prince William, is concerned. Thus, this may have had some bearing on his choice.
King Charles III, Prince William and Prince Harry during the annual Remembrance Sunday memorial in London, England on November 11, 2018 | Source: Getty Images
However, what is particularly interesting is that Prince William will be at Hugh’s wedding even though the Grosvenor family and the royal family have been at odds in the past. Tension arose ahead of the wedding of Hugh’s sister, Lady Tamara Grosvenor, years ago.
Lady Tamara Grosvenor and Edward van Cutsem on their wedding day in Chester, England on November 6, 2004 | Source: Getty Images
“With the wedding of their daughter in 2004, they wouldn’t let Camilla sit next to Charles because she wasn’t married to him,” Angela revealed.
As a result of what had happened, King Charles III and Queen Camilla were extremely upset. They were so unhappy that they did not attend Lady Tamara and Edward van Cutsem’s wedding. “They didn’t speak to the family for many years,” recalled Angela.
Queen Camilla and King Charles III at the Easter Service at Windsor Castle in Windsor, England on March 31, 2024 | Source: Getty Images
Nonetheless, it appears as though the relationship between Hugh and Prince William has endured, despite past familial drama. Hugh, who is also the godfather of Prince George, has forged a strong bond with both Prince William and Prince Harry. The groom-to-be and his family have long supported the two princes, especially when their mother passed away.
The Duke of Westminster, Hugh Grosvenor, and Prince William at the wedding of Edward van Cutsem and Lady Tamara Grosvenor in Chester, England on November 6, 2004 | Source: Getty Images
Naturally, it is sad indeed that one of the brothers Hugh has been so close with, won’t be involved in one of the biggest days of his life. However, the show will go on at Chester Cathedral, where the wedding ceremony is set to take place.
The Duke of Westminster, Hugh Grosvenor, at a memorial service at Chester Cathedral in Chester, England in 2016. | Source: Getty Images
Following the service, guests will migrate to a lavish reception at the 11,000-acre Grosvenor’s estate close to Eaton Hall. A more intimate reception will take place the day after, specifically for close loved ones.
Though the details for both receptions remain under wraps, a news outlet shared that all the cuisine, floral arrangements, and products for the event will be either locally or regionally sourced where possible.
The Duke of Westminster, Hugh Grosvenor, at the wedding of Charlie van Straubenzee and Daisy Jenks in Frensham, England on August 4, 2018 | Source: Getty Images
Reports state that Hugh desires his wedding to maintain as low a profile as possible. Unfortunately, as has been the case already, the event is predicted to gain a lot of attention, especially because of Prince Harry’s absenteeism.
Like Prince Harry, King Charles III will sit the wedding out, too, because of his cancer treatment and his plans to travel to France the day before the event.
King Charles III and Prince Harry at the “International Year of The Reef” 2018 meeting in London, England on February 14, 2018 | Source: Getty Images
As far as where Hugh stands on the fact that Prince Harry won’t be at his wedding, most likely because of his strained relationship with Prince William, a friend of his spoke on his behalf. “He wishes they could put their heads together and patch things up, but realises it’s unlikely to happen before the wedding,” confirmed the friend.
Prince William and Prince Harry during the Procession of the coffin of Queen Elizabeth II in London, England on September 19, 2022 in Windsor, England | Source: Getty Images
Hugh’s friend might have hit the nail on the head concerning the timeline of when the two princes might resolve their issues. After all, it was only over a week ago when Prince Harry was said to be visibly upset because his role as Colonel-in-Chief of the Army Air Corps was handed over to his brother.
Prince Harry seen with his head in his hands during the England vs Australia match at the Rugby World Cup in London, England on October 3, 2015 | Source: Getty Images
As reported by royal expert Richard Fitzwilliams, “King Charles’ announcement that Prince Harry is being stripped of his role as Colonel-in-Chief of the Army Corps is a real kick in the teeth for the son who always felt marginalised.”
Prince Harry at the Invictus Games Foundation 10th Anniversary Service at St Paul’s Cathedral in London, England on May 8, 2024 | Source: Getty Images
He went on to expand that what added further insult to injury for Prince Harry is the fact that the role was passed over to someone whom he deems as the “cause of so many of his problems – his brother.” The Duke of Sussex is said “to have been in tears when he heard” the news.
Prince Harry during a service for the reception of Queen Elizabeth II’s coffin in London, England on September 14, 2022 | Source: Getty Images
Apparently, while the senior royals were aware of the emotional damage they would be causing Prince Harry, they decided that given everything that’s happened, Pandora’s Box had already long been opened.
Continuing to speak on how the royal family feels about the situation, Richard added, “Harry needs to realize that when you betray the family, you don’t just escape the things you hated doing as a working royal. You also lose the things you loved.”
Prince William and King Charles III at the National Service of Thanksgiving and Dedication for King Charles III and Queen Camilla in Edinburgh, Scotland on July 5, 2023 | Source: Getty Images
Adding more salt to the wound was the fact that Prince Harry loved being Colonel-in-Chief of the Army Air Corps as it was something he took great pride in. Richard asserted that the Duke was also heartbroken because when he was serving in the military, he was delighted to be recognized for his achievements as a man and not as a royal family member.
Prince Harry meeting up with British service personel following a Remembrance Sunday service at Kandahar Airfield in Kandahar, Afghanistan on November 9, 2014 | Source: Getty Images
The title handover took place on May 13 at the Army Aviation Centre in Middle Wallop and with that Prince Harry’s remaining ties to his old life have been cut, according to the opinionated British royal expert.
Prince Harry at the Invictus Games Foundation 10th Anniversary Service at St Paul’s Cathedral in London, England on May 8, 2024 | Source: Getty Images
However, the Duke of Sussex had reportedly fought back against being pushed out as he was seen wearing his KCVO Neck Order and Star, conferred to him by his late grandmother, Queen Elizabeth II, at St. Paul’s Cathedral in early May.
He was at the cathedral to honor the 10th anniversary of the Invictus Games. The esteemed medal is conferred to an individual to recognize their service to the monarchy and is awarded as part of the Royal Victorian Order.
Prince Harry was seen wearing his KCVO Neck Order and Star at the Invictus Games Foundation 10th Anniversary Service at St Paul’s Cathedral in London, England on May 8, 2024 | Source: Getty Images
Much like Richard made inferences about how Prince Harry reacted to his brother’s new title, royal author Tom Quinn had asserted his beliefs concerning why the prince chose to wear his medal of honor.
“Wearing this was Harry’s way of reminding his family that his grandmother valued his contribution […] wearing the medal is Harry’s way of saying ‘You’ve taken everything else from me, but you can’t take this!'” expressed Tom to a news outlet.