The relationship between Meghan Markle and the British royal family became complicated as Meghan adjusted to the realities of royal hierarchy. According to royal experts, Meghan was reportedly surprised by Prince Harry’s position as the “second fiddle” to his brother, Prince William. This “spare” role meant that while Harry had certain duties and a public presence, he was not prioritized in royal matters as his brother, who is in direct line to the throne. This was a shift for Meghan, who entered the royal family expecting perhaps a more equal partnership in her and Harry’s roles, especially as they garnered positive attention on royal tours and other public engagements.
The challenges reportedly extended beyond hierarchy, touching on royal protocols and expectations. Meghan was noted for her different approach to royal engagements, such as embracing a casual and friendly demeanor, which at times clashed with the royal family’s more formal practices. In particular, her surprise about not being compensated for appearances, and her struggle to adapt to the formalities, revealed her discontent with the traditional limitations imposed on her as a member of the family
These frustrations are said to have been exacerbated by Meghan’s expectations of a modern, flexible royal role. While Harry’s charitable work, like his Sentebale foundation, and his focus on mental health advocacy, resonated well with him, he also struggled with balancing his public responsibilities and the boundaries of royal protocol. Ultimately, the couple’s decision to step down from their roles was in part a response to Meghan’s desire for a more influential role and Harry’s complex position within the family. The couple now focuses on initiatives and public engagements independently, free from the restrictions that initially created tension
